This is a disaster waiting to happen.I’m hoping I can gauge if it seems “strained” or “put on” when I’m there
Why is it hard for you to tell her no?
“No, I will not have my wife involved in softcore (or hard-core) porn. No I will not have my wife involved in sexual photo shoots. No I will not have my wife marketing her sexuality to the world.”
If that’s more important to her than you and her marriage, then she’s free to be a titty model or a porn star all she wants, but not as your wife.
Brother, there is no way this ends well. You have to stop it now. And if you can’t put a stop to this as her husband, you’re already ****ed because this will go down hill fast, and it will get a lot worse.