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This might sound weird to some but, I am not sure where to start. We have been married 5 years. I thought that everything was going fine, but for some reason it's not. My wife has been going through a some things that I just can't understand. She has had a rough life until I came into the picture. At least that is what she told me. Well, I recently found out that she has been talking to another guy(one that I know as well) via Facebook
and texting. I have no problem with this as I am not an overbearing, jealous man. But, now it is getting ridiculous. She has been sharing things with him about our relationship and how she doesn't love me but will not want to hurt me. She also stated that if the other guy would tell her that he "loved her", she would run to him in a heartbeat. Now, I know that I am not the most perfect person in the world and that I have many flaws, but, what causes a woman to change her mind like this. She was seeing a counselor for a few months, but that turned into a make things worse for my wife. She has been dealing with the past for so long and explained to the counselor that she was not happy with me. The counselor watched me one day, open her car door, walk her to the office and wish her well. Since that day, the counselor was telling her "How could you not like what he does for you?" "All I see is a loving man who wnts the best for you and the family"
Since that time, my wife stopped seeing the counselor because she was always harping on me! Now, my wife stated that she is gong to take a Facebook hiatus to "clear her thoughts". I want my wife to be happy and I would give her anything, but in the same time, I do not want her to take our kids into a broken situation and ruin tier lives because SHE IS NOT HAPPY. My wife will not tell me anything, so I have to sneak around, she had no job and I am the sole source of income. I want her to get a job and she is working but, I know that when she does she will want to leave me. Should I let her go and be herself? SHould I try to get this to work? What the heck did I do to deserve this heartache?
Since that time, my wife stopped seeing the counselor because she was always harping on me! Now, my wife stated that she is gong to take a Facebook hiatus to "clear her thoughts". I want my wife to be happy and I would give her anything, but in the same time, I do not want her to take our kids into a broken situation and ruin tier lives because SHE IS NOT HAPPY. My wife will not tell me anything, so I have to sneak around, she had no job and I am the sole source of income. I want her to get a job and she is working but, I know that when she does she will want to leave me. Should I let her go and be herself? SHould I try to get this to work? What the heck did I do to deserve this heartache?