Hi,
My wife of 3.5 yrs said this to me 4.5 months ago and we have been separated ever since. I also got the ILYBNILWY speech, but the main thing was not fancying me anymore (she said she wouldnt have left if she did still have these feelings for me).
We have been together 5.5 yrs in total and have 3 children (2 are my stepchildren).
My full story is on the going through divorce and separation thread on this site.
We had some communication problems last year and separated for 3 mths but went to MC and got back together. We have never had a problem physically in the past and my wife was the one who chased after me and we had passion in abundance.
I can't help but think she is running away as she's got 3 children with 3 different fathers and some issues from childhood which preent her getting too close/committed I think.
I was just wondering if anyone had any examples of working with their partner in this type of situation and got those feelings back successfully. I mean if they changed in the first place (she fancied me loads up to year 4 of r'ship), then surely they could change back again?
She doesn't think so so has left - I have decided to not gie up on her yet though as don't want to lose her and my girls. I'm hoping with time she might come round.
Btw there is no A or OM.
My wife of 3.5 yrs said this to me 4.5 months ago and we have been separated ever since. I also got the ILYBNILWY speech, but the main thing was not fancying me anymore (she said she wouldnt have left if she did still have these feelings for me).
We have been together 5.5 yrs in total and have 3 children (2 are my stepchildren).
My full story is on the going through divorce and separation thread on this site.
We had some communication problems last year and separated for 3 mths but went to MC and got back together. We have never had a problem physically in the past and my wife was the one who chased after me and we had passion in abundance.
I can't help but think she is running away as she's got 3 children with 3 different fathers and some issues from childhood which preent her getting too close/committed I think.
I was just wondering if anyone had any examples of working with their partner in this type of situation and got those feelings back successfully. I mean if they changed in the first place (she fancied me loads up to year 4 of r'ship), then surely they could change back again?
She doesn't think so so has left - I have decided to not gie up on her yet though as don't want to lose her and my girls. I'm hoping with time she might come round.
Btw there is no A or OM.