Agree with everyone else - sexless marriage and occasional good times does not a marriage make. A healthy one, anyway. I echo to divorce and get on with your life, find a compatible partner who wants a passionate life with you.
50/50 will give you the quality time you seek with your daughter, plus it will give her a complete different environment. What you wife has been doing to your daughter is sickening, and it might, if not already created a sick reference in your daughter's psyche developmentally.While my marriage with my wife may not be working, I feel like divorce would provide an opportunity for growth in my relationship with my daughter in future.
That's exactly what you are, and a wallet to boot.I'm now in this place where my wife and I are disconnected and I feel like I'm just a third person who lives in this house with them.
This is so true. This poor little girl is missing out on so much because of her mother. Dads are so important, equal to mothers in the development and lives of their children.My heart breaks for you and your daughter. Your wife's behavior is deeply troubling and doing your daughter an immense disservice. Your wife should get into therapy as soon as humanly possible so that she can become a healthy parent for your child and recommits to you and your relationship. If she refuses, your only option, IMO, is to divorce so that you can at least get your child out of that situation 50% of the time.