Kenneth414, I haven't read all the post here, but I know you will get s0me good advice. Staop doing the "pick me" dance, start a hard 180, and broadcast the PA to anyone who will listen. There are some denominations that seem to attract sexual users like the deacon you mentioned. Maybe one is yours.. Recently an Episcopal bishop was fired for messing with a 14 year old parishioner.My advice is to file for D and see what happens. And refuse to be a part in rug sweeping and blame shifting by your WW.