Don't want to get into a long spiel about why my marriage isn't working only to say that we got married under difficult circumstances (not really my choice at the time) and my heart has never really been 100% open to my wife. I don't really feel it's fair on either of us for me to continue in this relationship any more if my heart really isn't in it.
So I told her I wanted to end it and she kept begging me to stay, refusing to accept that we should both move on.
What should I do? I don't want to keep stringing her along pretending that everything is fine when it isn't. I don't want to end up at this point again (where I have to break her heart all over again) after trying again and finding that it's not working.
She suggested that we have a separation after which she expects me to come back to her. Again, I don't think this is really fair on her as I don't want to be giving her false hope if after this "separation", I decide to be gone for good.
So I told her I wanted to end it and she kept begging me to stay, refusing to accept that we should both move on.
What should I do? I don't want to keep stringing her along pretending that everything is fine when it isn't. I don't want to end up at this point again (where I have to break her heart all over again) after trying again and finding that it's not working.
She suggested that we have a separation after which she expects me to come back to her. Again, I don't think this is really fair on her as I don't want to be giving her false hope if after this "separation", I decide to be gone for good.