She really sounds like a cool lady. I can see why you enjoy her company.It's ok. I'm super annoyed today for obvious reasons and to be fair yours was not the only comment that hit me wrong. Unfortunately, I lost it on yours.
I fully intend to be the best father I can be if she is pregnant. And if she is pregnant I'm more than sure it will be mine. I'll get a dna test but to be honest it would be more for her humiliation than my peace of mine. I think I can be petty a little bit.
@skerzoid I appreciate the call for calm. I don't necessarily see people's outrage and vitriol toward my STBX as anything personal here. I realize all of us are here for the same reason and expect our shared experience to be projected in our opinions. But I do appreciate your sentiment. Thank you.
With that said just a quick update. I've spent the day with the best advisors a person can have.. my parents. They both have assured me they will support whatever my decision I make... In this case divorce. Both laid out the arguments for divorce and leaving the door open for reconcilation. Even reconcilation after divorce. I just can't bring myself seeing reconcilation in any form a good idea. They as always are good at playing both sides of an issue. Especially my dad.
STBX has texted that she will call tomorrow and make an appointment to see the doctor. She said if I want to go with her I could. She rightfully knows I am skeptical of this so is offering me a chance to be there. I replied thank you. I will let you know.
Spoke to OBS and told her. Her response was what I expected. She was positive and upbeat and encouraging. Her advice was to calm down. Breathe. And grill a steak. Seriously. Lol. She says I've never seen a man happier than when he's cooking dead cow over an open flame. So I just finished eating a steak and posted this.