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Agree. Marriage need not be the form of relationship you have moving forward. For one, think about it. Had it not been for you being mugged, which effectively ended your WWs A, for all you know her A may have continued even to this day, assuming the OBS didn’t inform you. Or, she could have moved on to another A, after the first, having enjoyed the the first one without any consequences.
You may be well past this in the R stage. However, no WP can ever say that this is not who they were or are now. Many like to say this, as they can’t face the truth about themselves. Cheaters may love their partner, but having committed adultery is who they are, at the same being a good partner snd parent. They are both people at the same time snd always will be
I’m saying this because I agree you should think twice about remarrying her. Statistically, like it or not, having cheated once makes her three times more likely to cheat again. Yes, she is a different person now. However, thus is an infidelity fact rarely disputed.
You may be well past this in the R stage. However, no WP can ever say that this is not who they were or are now. Many like to say this, as they can’t face the truth about themselves. Cheaters may love their partner, but having committed adultery is who they are, at the same being a good partner snd parent. They are both people at the same time snd always will be
I’m saying this because I agree you should think twice about remarrying her. Statistically, like it or not, having cheated once makes her three times more likely to cheat again. Yes, she is a different person now. However, thus is an infidelity fact rarely disputed.