Pretty sure the Boneheads were just taking the piss. Mine were at least. Or there's the 10-year-old response of "He started it".Well name calling will get you banned so maybe everyone should back off of that.
I'm not taking sides but he is somewhat correct.
I have a friend who had his wife cheat openly last year and I advised him and he followed my advice.
She didn't work and he made a solid six figures.
He got full custody and she is paying child support.
People who plan and act do a little better.
Those outcomes haven't been my experience. One buddy of mine couldn't get custody of his son, and his ex-wife was a junkie living in a drug house. Another's ex took his kids across the country, and there was nothing he could do about it. He hasn't seen them in a decade.