The most relevant sentences here to me are good points.You are all wrong.
The question is wrong.
Whenever you see a situation that doesn't match your perception of life. You automatically go to because he is simply ****ed up. That's not even trying to understand.
If we want to talk about sexual dysfunction you have to start with the person who selects for it.
Not with the person who is driven into it.
A problem with that is that (and I'm truly coming to believe this) sometimes both parties are driven into it.
1. There are Hs who are driven to it.
2. There are Hs who select it.
But no reasons as to why a H would tolerate it. Some who say they're 2. are really 1. likely.