I wonder about these situations too - what makes them stay?I have an employee like that, makes me nuts. He is a retired Chief Petty Officer and now acts like a new boot and wife is the Admiral. He is so stressed he takes meds for it.
Said nothing about attractive/hot women.
My cousin’s second wife is not as good looking as the first, and she does as she pleases, and controls absolutely everything. He’s not allowed any social life anymore. Meanwhile she chats online all day to guys while he works, she does nothing around the house and I just don’t get it.
First wife was drama-free, decent but moody, but in fairness she also got very upset about how he was out with the boys too much and he left her - now he’s got this one and the whole family is puzzled