Double s4!t then, real bad ages to be going through this!
Get to family therapy with them and get on the case of damage limitation by getting them open and talking about it constructively, I had a student girl here for 2 weeks last fall, she was a self harmer due to her fathers serial cheating ways and he broke that family apart! She opened up about on the trail one time, she described it as though that pain from the cut was like releasing all her agony and torment from it all, she died on 01/04/14 from an overdose of pain killers mixed with vodka.
My life has been filled with such tragedy that I envy those who walk without sorrow.
I have taken them for IC. A lot of anger + hormones = a paranoid dad.
Going through sh!t these days. Talking about it is pretty difficult. They saw what WW and OM were doing. I have to pop a xanax whenever I read lordmayhem's post. They saw the whole thing live.
I have taken them for IC. A lot of anger + hormones = a paranoid dad.
Going through sh!t these days. Talking about it is pretty difficult. They saw what WW and OM were doing. I have to pop a xanax whenever I read lordmayhem's post. They saw the whole thing live.
Does she deserve a certain respect or regard simply because she gave birth to your kids? Love your kids, but consider her just as much a whO're as any other lady adulterer. That's my take anyway........
As I recall OM is also jailed I asume she just went along with him on asssaulting them... so I asume they caught them in the act... and given the kinky nature of their "affair" I can understand the horrible impact it had in them.
Are they in any kind of therapy?
You already have them in IC, you get yourself in IC and make sure your daughter understands that she'll only be like her if she chooses that life. Her mom made CHOICES, there is no genetic template for all behaviors. If there were a genetic template, we'd all be exactly the same in all aspects of life.
Your daughter can be whatever she wants in this life, but above all things she must learn to respect herself and others.
Will she become an exploiter of men? Possibly, will she choose to become a dominatrix type carachter who sexually eploits men, now "that", is something only she can decide.
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