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I have posted a few times in the Going Through Separation forum, but I need to share my story here. I have been married for 20 years and we have one child. My husband had an affair about 10 years, he confessed, promised to never to do it again, and we did counseling. Approximately 6 months ago, he told me that he wasn't sure that he wanted to be married any more and I was devastated. He said there was no one else, but that he felt that he wanted to be free to do his own things and that he felt like we didn't have anything in common any more. I struggled to try to "fix" things for us. I was so scared and confused and couldn't bear the thought of losing my husband and my best friend. Naturally, everything I did just drove him away and we have been separated for about six weeks.
Since the separation, I have had some of his co-workers tell me that he has been having an affair with someone at work. Someone else told me today that he also had a relationship with someone else he worked with in the past that I did not know about. I just feel horrible. Of course, he denies all of these accusations and he is so ANGRY WITH ME! That's the worst part. I am hurting so bad. Need advice!
Since the separation, I have had some of his co-workers tell me that he has been having an affair with someone at work. Someone else told me today that he also had a relationship with someone else he worked with in the past that I did not know about. I just feel horrible. Of course, he denies all of these accusations and he is so ANGRY WITH ME! That's the worst part. I am hurting so bad. Need advice!