There trophies.Two years into a second marriage for both. Sex is amazing. Our teen girls get along perfectly. We support each other’s endeavors and are open with our feelings. And also... I’m a natural snoop and cyber stalker. He knows this and it’s no secret. It actually helped him quite a bit when his ex tried to take his kiddos in a custody redo!
Anyway, I was dusting around our bedroom and came upon his watch case and man’s valet if you will. He keeps cuff links and passports, etc there. I peeked. I’ve always known there were USBs but I left them alone. They got the best of me this time. I found that he archived intimate pics of various ex’s and one in particular that he needed time to get over. He did this one week before we got married. Ok, I get it. But I saw where he accessed these files three months ago. Ok......... maybe forgot he put them there. But... he obv put them back... in the little treasure chest... three feet from where I sleep. We are married. He has knowingly and purposely kept these pics (and some are just snap shots of her IG - three years ago - that he wouldn’t want me to know he had... which is more painful). So.... I snooped. And he has, what... hurt me? I’m sad that he saw that he had them and chose to keep them. He will be embarrassed when I toss the USB to him. I won’t be angry. I’m simply disappointed and the wonderful fabric between us damaged. Dammit.
Unfortunately, I have to say something tonight or I’ll brood with piss n vinegar. Thoughts? Yes, snooping is wrong. I know. He’ll feel violated. But hey, so do I.