Hello. Im separated from my husband. We had been married for just over a year. I discovered he was texting another woman but hadnt met her saying things he shudnt be saying. When i confronted him he told me he didnt love me and loved this woman. After having time to think he then said he did love me. This up and down emotional state went on for 2 weeks. I then found out that him and this woman were planning to meet altho we were on a trial separation at the time.
A few days later he began texting me again saying that this other woman had ignored him. I looked into divorce and told him, he then asked to meet me. A week later I met him and he again told me how much he had missed me and still loves me. He said he didnt want to rush back into anything so we would take it slow. Even agreed to go to marriage councelling. We met up a few times in the week that followed. He never stopped telling me he loves me and wanted us to work out.
Then a few hours after seeing him one day he text saying he wanted to walk away from us. He said this other woman had text him saying the reason she ignored him was because I had text her telling her to stay away which wasnt true. He believed me but still said he didnt know about us and he asked me to give him space so i did. I text him later that week asking how he was and he never replied. I stupidly went through his fonebill and found he had been texting a different number so text it saying I was his wife and i knew he was with her. She rang me saying they were just friends but he had been staying with her for a couple of days. They are now in a relationship together, yet he has only met her just over a week ago! He has since told me he no longer loves me and doesnt want me and has got a new number etc.
Im so confused. He met her the day after I had last seen him and after this other woman had text lying about me. He seemed happy taking it slow with me but now doesnt wanna know. We were together for 5 years before we got married. He has had a drug problem in the last couple of years which seemed to get worse in the last few months. Why would he tell me he loves me if he didnt? Why has he jumped straight into another relationship so quickly?
He said he hadnt loved me for a long time but when I was going to leave him after finding out how bad the drug problem was he begged me not to saying he couldnt live without me and how much he loves me. I did accuse him a lot due to the texts he would send women and because of the drugs.
The woman he with now isnt the woman he was texting in our marriage. He also suffered depression but didnt take his tabs all the time and has stopeed completely now. Im not sure whether the drugs have messed him up and if he will realise he has made a mistake. He was always as loving as normal toward me throughout the whole of our relationship. We even went to our favourite uk destination for our year anniversary a couple of months ago. He wont talk to me as his new partner text me saying im to have no contact with him or his family. he wont explain to me why this has happened either. can anyone give me possible answers please its driving me insane!
A few days later he began texting me again saying that this other woman had ignored him. I looked into divorce and told him, he then asked to meet me. A week later I met him and he again told me how much he had missed me and still loves me. He said he didnt want to rush back into anything so we would take it slow. Even agreed to go to marriage councelling. We met up a few times in the week that followed. He never stopped telling me he loves me and wanted us to work out.
Then a few hours after seeing him one day he text saying he wanted to walk away from us. He said this other woman had text him saying the reason she ignored him was because I had text her telling her to stay away which wasnt true. He believed me but still said he didnt know about us and he asked me to give him space so i did. I text him later that week asking how he was and he never replied. I stupidly went through his fonebill and found he had been texting a different number so text it saying I was his wife and i knew he was with her. She rang me saying they were just friends but he had been staying with her for a couple of days. They are now in a relationship together, yet he has only met her just over a week ago! He has since told me he no longer loves me and doesnt want me and has got a new number etc.
Im so confused. He met her the day after I had last seen him and after this other woman had text lying about me. He seemed happy taking it slow with me but now doesnt wanna know. We were together for 5 years before we got married. He has had a drug problem in the last couple of years which seemed to get worse in the last few months. Why would he tell me he loves me if he didnt? Why has he jumped straight into another relationship so quickly?
He said he hadnt loved me for a long time but when I was going to leave him after finding out how bad the drug problem was he begged me not to saying he couldnt live without me and how much he loves me. I did accuse him a lot due to the texts he would send women and because of the drugs.
The woman he with now isnt the woman he was texting in our marriage. He also suffered depression but didnt take his tabs all the time and has stopeed completely now. Im not sure whether the drugs have messed him up and if he will realise he has made a mistake. He was always as loving as normal toward me throughout the whole of our relationship. We even went to our favourite uk destination for our year anniversary a couple of months ago. He wont talk to me as his new partner text me saying im to have no contact with him or his family. he wont explain to me why this has happened either. can anyone give me possible answers please its driving me insane!