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Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 years we are deeply i love and we're in the advanced stages of our relationship because Im planning to propose.
Yesterday I decided to go out with my boy to watch a football game ''Real vs Barca'(literally the biggest football game in the world)
Instead of sitting at home by myself watching I just went down to the local bar to watch it.
Before, I got out we had a small argument about me going out too much with my friends. I just told her i'll be back in a couple of hours and left. and Boy, did i pay for this one....
I got back home and she gave me the silent treatment for about an hour and a bit
and she already ordered Chinese so I had to make my own dinner, she also told me-IF YOU LOVE FOOTBALL SO MUCH, GO MARRY IT.
I decided to talk to her in a rational manner, and she co-operated and told me ''she feels lonely when i'm gone'' and she wants me closer- BUT IT WAS ONLY OR A COUPLE OF HOURS....she goes out shopping with her friends on saturdays I dont complain about being lonely.
Now im wondering is this what marriage is like. Is it a preview of whats coming when we get married. Is normal for married couples to be like this? Have you guys ever experienced this. How do you go about dealing with this
Dont get me wrong I love this woman. I would take a bullet for her and would never trade her for any other woman....
But why are women like this??
I understand it is partially my fault but where am I wrong in this
Mind you I'm 27.......
Yesterday I decided to go out with my boy to watch a football game ''Real vs Barca'(literally the biggest football game in the world)
Instead of sitting at home by myself watching I just went down to the local bar to watch it.
Before, I got out we had a small argument about me going out too much with my friends. I just told her i'll be back in a couple of hours and left. and Boy, did i pay for this one....
I got back home and she gave me the silent treatment for about an hour and a bit
I decided to talk to her in a rational manner, and she co-operated and told me ''she feels lonely when i'm gone'' and she wants me closer- BUT IT WAS ONLY OR A COUPLE OF HOURS....she goes out shopping with her friends on saturdays I dont complain about being lonely.
Now im wondering is this what marriage is like. Is it a preview of whats coming when we get married. Is normal for married couples to be like this? Have you guys ever experienced this. How do you go about dealing with this
Dont get me wrong I love this woman. I would take a bullet for her and would never trade her for any other woman....
But why are women like this??
I understand it is partially my fault but where am I wrong in this
Mind you I'm 27.......