[frank29]

In my life i have had three fairly long term relationships in all cases i have helped my partners to get ahead with their lives by givin support and all the help to achieve their aims and goals as soon as they can manage to get along and flying with out help from me off they go with someone else anybody else had this

 

[canttrustu]

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But seriously, perhaps this is the problem?

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/01/white-knight-syndrome/all/1/

 

[BjornFree]

No

 

[Chris Taylor]

Sometimes being supportive and helpful isn't enough. "Supportive" and "helpful" also define what my parents did for me.

There are so many other things a spouse is supposed to do for the other. You didn't mention them. Maybe you did them, maybe you didn't, and that was the problem.