Well, THIS woman wants nothing to do with a man who would stick his penis in another woman when he's married to me. If my husband ever did that, he'd be out on his ass. And if I ever did started looking elsewhere, I'd be out as well. We were both able to forgive emotional infidelity, but no way are we going to let someone come between us again. Marriage, for us, is two people... not a village. In addition to that, I don't want to risk him bringing home some nastiness. No thanks!Probably because men don't want to get stuck raising somebody else's bastard.
You have to have self respect to be against cheating.
If you want to know the answer, read my thread. It's all in there. But the short answer is selfish, stupid, severely lacking in coping skills, and lack of communication. All of which we have resolved and continue nurturing.Maricha72, if marriage for you isnt a village, why did both of you cheat, EA?
Have you actually read the posts by men whose wives have cheated? Go back to CWI and read them. Many have more issues with this than you seem to think.
More than half of the betrayed spouses here are men. So i guess you are wrong that it's usually females.
Um no, how on earth did you read that into my reply?Well, Holland you mean, your hubby can go around sleeping with strippers, flirting with women, sleeping with hot girls and you are okay with it but you are not okay with him being emotionally connected with him to other women?
So SEX is open and hes free to do it
Great to see people like me
There's a wild dog that runs around my neighborhood trying to hump every female dog in sight.
What the heck does that got to do with anything? No no no dont let ignorant fools like this give us a bad name.You're from the Latin American culture, aren't you?
I've looked at some of this girl's other threads...