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1st off we live with with my inlaws, which is great at times and then not great at others.
FIL always yells at the kids if they are making to much noise so they are not to play on his level just on our's or the basement. He pokes DS with a cane, we told him to stop and he says he is playing well it's not playing when your grandchild crys and runs away from you every day.
He also bugs him when he is eating (child has a feeding tube) so when he eats by mouth it's a huge deal but we try not to make it a big deal. We just let him eat and be.
We said something to him and it seems like MH can't do no wrong and I brained washed my kids and MH against fil.
I was so mad and upset with MH I told him, I should of just leave you and then myself and the kids would not have to deal with this.(we are also 7 months into R) I think living where we are put a strain on our marriage.
FIL always yells at the kids if they are making to much noise so they are not to play on his level just on our's or the basement. He pokes DS with a cane, we told him to stop and he says he is playing well it's not playing when your grandchild crys and runs away from you every day.
He also bugs him when he is eating (child has a feeding tube) so when he eats by mouth it's a huge deal but we try not to make it a big deal. We just let him eat and be.
We said something to him and it seems like MH can't do no wrong and I brained washed my kids and MH against fil.
I was so mad and upset with MH I told him, I should of just leave you and then myself and the kids would not have to deal with this.(we are also 7 months into R) I think living where we are put a strain on our marriage.