I have been married for 29 years. I threw him out because I couldn't take the lies and him cheating on me. It was with 1 woman for 3 years. He moved in with his stepsister, but moved in right after that with his "mistress". I have been seeing someone for the last couple of months and he is a great guy. He is not like my soon to be ex at all. In fact, when I would cry over my husband, he would hold me and tell me it would all be okay. All i know is I want to stop feeling for my husband. He is in my thoughts daily and I just want rid of them. I know I have a man now who really loves me, would never cheat on me, and would do anything for me so why can't I just be happy instead of dwelling on the past? I hate that my husband is still in my thoughts...because he doesn't deserve to be in them. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to get my ex out of my head? Thanks so much. Also I just wanted to say my ex never treated me well, spent way to much money we didn't have and I was no longer really attracted to him physically, so why do I think about him so much...maybe it is a "I don't want you" issue.