I get easily upset when some of my relatives say that Russians are brutal descendants of Gengis Khan who supported Stalin (I am a Russian married to an American). They have no problem raising this issue even at family Christmas dinners. My husband thinks it's OK and calls me confrontational every time I tried to voice my objections to such insensitivity. Our disagreement on this subject puts strain on our relationship and I don't know how I can find a peace of mind. Please help.