He already knew all this. He weighted the risks. He's not imparied, stupid, ill.Worst of all, I can't just leave him because he has no one else here. He can't legally stay here if we divorce. I know he doesn't want to go back home and will never go through the shame of returning after having divorced me.
He's a entitled cheater, a profesional liar.
Sorry friend you are trying to "nice" him. It can't be done.