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Ok.
I've decided I'm not ready to just throw in the towel just yet.
I've finally learned to ignore the words spoken and to watch the actions.
But I have a question since I'm kind of in "in between the lands" I'm currently dark, NC for 2 days now with no prior arrangements of getting the kiddo. Ignored calls and texts already.
So my question for my future plans.
When they come around... the wayward spouses, is it a brick to the head kinda sudden change of heart? Or is it usually slowly coming back?
Some say to take it slow and "Show her the man she needs, the better you and she'll come around eventually"
What is your take on "When they usually come around"?
How have you seen it?
I've decided I'm not ready to just throw in the towel just yet.
I've finally learned to ignore the words spoken and to watch the actions.
But I have a question since I'm kind of in "in between the lands" I'm currently dark, NC for 2 days now with no prior arrangements of getting the kiddo. Ignored calls and texts already.
So my question for my future plans.
When they come around... the wayward spouses, is it a brick to the head kinda sudden change of heart? Or is it usually slowly coming back?
Some say to take it slow and "Show her the man she needs, the better you and she'll come around eventually"
What is your take on "When they usually come around"?
How have you seen it?