It has been a month since my dropped the bomb, and in a few days we will be going to court to finalize all the paperwork, amicably. Since D-day she has been in limited contact with me (text only) and i have givin her plenty of space, since we are separated. Also, i have not phoned her but 3 times tried to keep it bussiness only.
My question, when is it a good time to intiate contact with a W that has a hardened heart? She has shown signs of softening, for instance last week she invited me to the park to play w/ my kids, but then goes back to bussiness as usaual. Says she is trying to be "friends" for our boys.
After the paperwork is filed, we have to wait another 5months then it will be finalized.
Last nite when she p/u my boys from my mothers house, she hung out for about 20min, then i pushed a little bit telling her that "it does not have to be this way" and "it is hard to let go" she became negative.
We have not talked at all about anything about what led to this situation.
It has been all her just moving along pursuing the D (telling me over the phone), serving the paperwork, and then arranging the court date. I feel that she is running and keeping her self so busy to ingnore thinking about it. The days that I am sure she is alone are the days she texts out of the blue or asks me to go to the park.
Should i initiate contact and try to talk to her yet?
My question, when is it a good time to intiate contact with a W that has a hardened heart? She has shown signs of softening, for instance last week she invited me to the park to play w/ my kids, but then goes back to bussiness as usaual. Says she is trying to be "friends" for our boys.
After the paperwork is filed, we have to wait another 5months then it will be finalized.
Last nite when she p/u my boys from my mothers house, she hung out for about 20min, then i pushed a little bit telling her that "it does not have to be this way" and "it is hard to let go" she became negative.
We have not talked at all about anything about what led to this situation.
It has been all her just moving along pursuing the D (telling me over the phone), serving the paperwork, and then arranging the court date. I feel that she is running and keeping her self so busy to ingnore thinking about it. The days that I am sure she is alone are the days she texts out of the blue or asks me to go to the park.
Should i initiate contact and try to talk to her yet?
