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Don't know where to start first. Have so many issues running through my brain I think I even confuse myself. But my biggest problem right now is I think I take our relationship problem more seriously then my partner does!
Our sex life lacks big time and it's been for quite some time now, maybe about 2 years now. I try to speak to him about this but I don't think he takes it as seriously as we I do. When we first started out our sex life was AMAZING and it was constant. One thing we always said was we loved our sex life and couldn't ever imagine it changing between us. So o.k fast forward a couple of years and coming back to reality, it changed and I expected it to to some degree but not what it has haulted too.
So now the reasons for it not to exsist are blamed on not feeling well, chemical embalance, stress, kids, work, etc. For a long time it left me feeling undesired & unattractive and to be honest it still does. I'm trying to be open minded by telling myself I must be the stronger one mentally that can handle everyday stress & work issues better then him but in the back of my mind I also tell myself if he misses us being connected & intimate wouldn't you make the time or put forth some kind of effort.
I've thought about the chemical embalance issue as well, I've read about that a bit too and I could cope with that but I think that's just used as excuse because unless I'm wrong what I've rad about that you withdraw from everything & everyone not just your partner & sex life.
I guess I'm just confused, hurt, sad and horny as hell. Just flooded with tons of emotions & questions and lots of things to get off my chest that I have kept closed up inside of me for some time now.
I thank you all in advance for just listening to me ramble on!
Our sex life lacks big time and it's been for quite some time now, maybe about 2 years now. I try to speak to him about this but I don't think he takes it as seriously as we I do. When we first started out our sex life was AMAZING and it was constant. One thing we always said was we loved our sex life and couldn't ever imagine it changing between us. So o.k fast forward a couple of years and coming back to reality, it changed and I expected it to to some degree but not what it has haulted too.
So now the reasons for it not to exsist are blamed on not feeling well, chemical embalance, stress, kids, work, etc. For a long time it left me feeling undesired & unattractive and to be honest it still does. I'm trying to be open minded by telling myself I must be the stronger one mentally that can handle everyday stress & work issues better then him but in the back of my mind I also tell myself if he misses us being connected & intimate wouldn't you make the time or put forth some kind of effort.
I've thought about the chemical embalance issue as well, I've read about that a bit too and I could cope with that but I think that's just used as excuse because unless I'm wrong what I've rad about that you withdraw from everything & everyone not just your partner & sex life.
I guess I'm just confused, hurt, sad and horny as hell. Just flooded with tons of emotions & questions and lots of things to get off my chest that I have kept closed up inside of me for some time now.
I thank you all in advance for just listening to me ramble on!
