I never thought I'd live to be 79, but here I am...and kicking pretty high too. Work every day (unless I decide I don't want to), my wife is just a little younger and in better health than I am. She has lost all desire for sex and closeness - her Dad was killed when she was young, her Mother learned to be independent, my guess is she never touched another man... my wife has followed her footsteps! It drives me crazy! Just don't know what to do... just a real kiss would be a treat better than ice cream! Few times in last few months i've shown some affection, she says "do you know of anybody as old as we are that does stuff like that?" --What does a fellow do??