My husband and I have been disconnected for a long time now we have been together for almost 10 yrs, married for 2 of them. We were very connected before we got married but a series of events happened and we lost each other. recently I told him I was going to leave him because I couldn't take this emotional roller coaster anymore, I would tell him to change he would for a week then we would be back in the same miserable way of life we called a marriage. basically living 2 seperate lives. Well last night we had a serious talk and he said he loves me but is not in love with me and I actually feel the same way. When 2 people feel the same way can you find that love again or should we just split ways? He promised me that he will change everything that he has to to help our situation, he has done things to make me feel I can't trust him and such. I am just afraid that if I give him another chance he will hurt me again because he made so many broken promises to me and I feel like I've heard this time and time again. I keep doing and doing for him and he just takes advantage, how do I really know he means it he just keeps taking my heart and stomping on it. Any advice please Should I give him another chance? Its just that I have given him so many chances already is this time really any different?