Why is she so lazy?
Is she depressed?
Is she depressed?
Oh, she gets it; she just doesn't want to do it.We have fought and had discussions about this topic for almost three years now and she still doesnt get that I need help.
Is it time to leave
I cringe to think of what was happening before. You've already been given a lot of great advice but I'll just say no one here will make that call for you, but they're going to ask questions you might not have wanted (or thought) to answer. Do this honestly and you'll get your best results.So I have posted on here before about my problem, but things have not gotten better.
Your relationship dynamic is Father & lazy daughter except for the occasional duty sex.So I have posted on here before about my problem, but things have not gotten better.
A brief recap: my wife does not do anything. We both work (although she left her decent paying job to work part-time at a local bakery), I do the cooking, cleaning, taking care and walking the dog etc. She refuses to get her driver licenses so I also have to drive her around everywhere.
I have stood up to her a lot more. I refuse to take her places and I only do her laundry if a bra or something accidentally gets in my clothes. The only thing I still do for her is cook. Don't think that she is working around the house more, I am just not doing things that are not absolutely necessary for her.
We have sex about once every other week (once a week if I am lucky. Is this normal?) She claims she is just too lazy to get undressed but loves the sex.
Anyway, I obviously am unable to keep up with all of the housework myself and our house is always messy. It drives me nuts. We have fought and had discussions about this topic for almost three years now and she still doesnt get that I need help.
Is it time to leave