While not devoice but death, my wife of 11 years died in may 2002 we had been together for 19 years; I was 34. I was not planning on dating but someone from my past showed up in oct 2002 and I thought why not. That lasted for about 7 months was a wild train ride until I noticed that the bridge was out; crash and burn. I dated a few more but they went nowhere. I started dating my now wife in 2004 married in 2006.