What's the best way for us wives to initiate?

Of course I will make love sometimes, when I am sated, i will take my time, but most times its a f*ck. And Jaquen, what planet are you from. Are you a man, men, i would put this in the 99.9 percentile love women who know what they want and initiate. You are dead, dead wrong dude. Being picked up, was that a 60, 70s thing, we love to be picked up and we love women who know what they want. A tease is ok, but we prefer straight to business, not beating around the bush. Again, once a man is sated, a little game is ok, like what you all describe, but the norm is d!ck to mouth, not ***** footing. I don't have a very narrow view, I have a mans view, the factual male view that your weak men wont tell you. Someone mentioned communication, if you had it with your men, then you would know. a man to sex is like a vampire to blood, the breaking dawn series comes to mind. Women learn what's is a mans mind. All you need to do is put your hands in his pants, that's it, the rest is lies they told you, because that's what they think you want!

cub!chy said:

Of course I will make love sometimes, when I am sated, i will take my time, but most times its a f*ck.

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Then don't write in absolutes that women make love, and men f*ck, if even you cop to doing both.

cub!chy said:

And Jaquen, what planet are you from.

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Planet Common Sense. You should visit some time. It's quite nice.

cub!chy said:

Are you a man

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Sure am.

cub!chy said:

men, i would put this in the 99.9 percentile love women who know what they want and initiate.

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Got a link to back this up 99.9 percentile? Got any actual male friends? I have plenty, and guess what? Quite a few of them enjoy the tease, the seduction, the game. The "d*ick in the mouth" approach is hot, it's my wife's preferred method, but lots of men enjoy the thrill of the chase. A hot woman walking suggestively in a pair of her favorite sexy underwear. A look. Men who actually have regular, fulfilling sex with real women aren't always so desperate for sex that they can't stand a little teasing, a little lead up.

Again, you don't have to choose.

cub!chy said:

You are dead, dead wrong dude. Being picked up, was that a 60, 70s thing, we love to be picked up and we love women who know what they want. A tease is ok, but we prefer straight to business, not beating around the bush. Again, once a man is sated, a little game is ok, like what you all describe, but the norm is d!ck to mouth, not ***** footing. I don't have a very narrow view, I have a mans view, the factual male view that your weak men wont tell you. Someone mentioned communication, if you had it with your men, then you would know. a man to sex is like a vampire to blood, the breaking dawn series comes to mind. Women learn what's is a mans mind. All you need to do is put your hands in his pants, that's it, the rest is lies they told you, because that's what they think you want!

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I know what planet you're from now. It's planet Cub!chy.

Population: 1.

It makes perfect sense now that you have the authority to speak for the whole world.

Hey Cub!chy,

It's exactly that narrow view of men that has left me bewildered and hurt. If it were as simple as stuffing my hand down my guy's pants then I'd be having the amount of sex that I want. But it isn't so simple. Each man is different in his needs, wants, likes, etc. Like another thread shows, some men like it straight up, some like a tease, etc. some are put off by such a forward woman. Some like when a woman knows what she wants and some don't.

Presently, I"m struggling with the fact I'm HD and he's LD. What suggestion do you have with this fact?? and it is not that I'm unattractive, overweight, or dull. My previous BF made me feel like the hottest thing on the planet. But we had similar drives and tastes for sexual adventure. As it happens, my present BF and I don't. Or I haven't figured out how to unlock it.

Ideas??

Jaquen, pardon my absolute, and ok, 99.9% is a little high, I will bring it down to 99.8%. I didn't say men can't do the teasing seduction game as you call it, I said we prefer directness, c0ck in mouth. I am 38, been around the block a couple of times, but only 1 planet, the place were real men speak their mind. Are you telling me that during 1 week of daily sex, you don't prefer your partner to go down on you instead of hinting and flirting around the issue? Read the original post, what's better, I say, men prefer direct, hand in pants, c0ck in mouth, and if 99.8 is too high, you provide a %, buts if its less than 75%, you aint from planet earth. Lovesong, yours is a different issue, from the original post. I would suggest watching porn together, hand in pants, daily oral, rubbing his c0ck outside his pants, you masturbating in front of him, offer anal, ride him, lick his balls, have anal in front of mirror, do DP with anal and dildo, speak to him as to your wants and needs and he will man up for you. Be direct and it wont fail. If it does, he may have other issues, maybe medical condition.