It seems lots of opinions. I admit I truly messed up, all my fault. I let work show her the text messages. There was never anything physical or pictures, that's the truth. Most of the texts were stupid gif images. It betrayed her trust and was disrespectful. Im ****, I know that. I moved out so she could think, but 3 days after I move out she's at this guys house. I dont blame her. I still get my son 4 or 5 days a week and he's my main focus. My son tried calling his mother last night and she didn't answer her phone. Im pretty sure she was at this guys house. Just seems ****ty to ignore your son. He asked me were she could be. I told him I didn't know. I'm not about to tell him moms out with some new guy. We both have issues from our childhood, im not looking for pity or anything. Guess I just need to get it all out. She's still going to counseling. Our relationship wasn't all Sunshine and rainbows, she's mived out twice before, we patch things up and tread forward. Its true, you dont know what you got til its gone. I just hope through my stupidity, 1 person can learn from my mistake.