Been married 16yrs. The issue is, i messed up. I was texting another woman i worked with for about a year. The texts were naughty, no pics involved. I never wanted to hook up or meet up with this other woman. Texts were only sent while were at work, dudnt send any while at home or with my wife. I personally thought this woman was just a friend and we were joking around. I got fired for the text, using company phone. Wife worked at same place with me, she of course found out. I let work show her the texts. Thought this would show her im not hiding it anymore. Well I moved out of house for a few weeks, moved back in and we started going to counseling. After a month of that she decided she can't forgive me and I have moved out again. We are talking about a dissolution but I really do not want one. I want to work on this but she says she has been unhappy for a very long time. One week after I moved out this 2nd time she has started going to another man's house, she works with this man. I know I messed up, we have 1 son and I want yo keep this family together. Should told me she wants out, but I wanna fight and try. Should I just accept this or keep fighting?