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Sorry you are having trouble. I am fifty and I know what you mean when you say, "looking for love at 47+ may not be that bad". My ex did not like wearing lingerie for similar reasons. I liked when she wore it. I wanted her to wear only the things which didn't need to come off during sex. They just enhanced my longing. She didn't do it and eventually found someone else.(much more to this than just that)

I was more like your wife in that I did not have the friends, and still do not. I liked going out with my wife. I was terribly depressed about my station in life compared with hers. I felt like less of a man. I think it was partly due to how I was raised.

Maybe she is depressed? I know I did not realize the depression had set in until it was too late. A doctor visit and counseling might help.

There will be folks on here that know lots more than me. They are good people. They can help.

Good Luck.
 
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