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As you guys know, my wife and I are doing MC in regards to her sex addiction, and recently she has been healing and changing for the better (I think)...
She's become much more clingy unfortunately, and MC apparently identified my lack of "sensitivity" and "vulnerability" a problem that contributed to my wife's insecurities. I was confused, because I've been alot less hardened since wising up a while back, and more emotionally available.
My wife doesn't seem to think so, she still reckons I can be too hardened and need to open up to her. I don't get what game she's playing at, because anymore "beta" and I'll be a doormat! I've given her as much beta as I could...
Is this a fitness test? Is she right? I don't get it!
She's become much more clingy unfortunately, and MC apparently identified my lack of "sensitivity" and "vulnerability" a problem that contributed to my wife's insecurities. I was confused, because I've been alot less hardened since wising up a while back, and more emotionally available.
My wife doesn't seem to think so, she still reckons I can be too hardened and need to open up to her. I don't get what game she's playing at, because anymore "beta" and I'll be a doormat! I've given her as much beta as I could...
Is this a fitness test? Is she right? I don't get it!