What more can I do??

Tell he either the porn subscription goes or you are going to get the following procedures done or products (pick whatever applies to you best):

• Boob job
• Tummy tuck
• Lipo suction
• Collagen
• Laser hair removal (landing strip, 100% bare, your choice)
• Face lift
• Anti-aging creams

I'm sure he'd give some response like "Why?" or "Yeah right...", so when he gives you a response like that you can tell him that since you have to compete with these porn stars you need to level the playing field. And if you end up attracting a lot of other men in the process, then so be it...

Porn is a release for some guys that lets them avoid the demands that come with real life interactions. Most of them don't "confuse" the fantasy that they'll never have with the terrific reality they *do* have. But even the best wife and intimate partner want to be pleased and he knows it's on him to do that.

Where it goes wrong sometimes is that the woman feels she can't compete and starts getting controlling, leading to relationship problems. Or he gets too dependent on porn, where he's devoting too much time to needing that escape valve. This can hamper a couple's intimacy, especially if it desensitizes him to a degree that he has a hard time reaching orgasm with her.

I think you'll benefit most from evaluating exactly what effect it has on the relationship and addressing those issues. For you, the issue is your own insecurity. For him, it may be feeling judged, criticized, or lonely for some reason. Porn is his way to cope with whatever his issue is. Feeling needy/demanding is your way to cope with the insecurity you feel when he looks at porn.