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guess the subject is self explanatory. what does a man want from his wife?
 

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uh.not in the sexual way, i meant. but really, is that all about it? seriously confused.
 

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i love sex,he doesn't.sexless marriage for 2 years.
i clean up everyday, im neat & clean. i take 2 baths per day, put make up on, im 159cm/47kgs. i work out,2 hours per day. i cook. i earn my share. i take care the dogs, feed them, take them for daily walks.
now he lays the pink slip. what is it that i missed?
 

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Your man is defective. Disregard all previous posts.
:rofl:

I agree in a way though. Something must have been wrong with him.

Why no sex for two years? I hate to say it but do you think he was getting it from some place else? Maybe he has met someone new.:confused:

I'm sorry that you are going through this.
 

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:rofl:

I agree in a way though. Something must have been wrong with him.

Why no sex for two years? I hate to say it but do you think he was getting it from some place else? Maybe he has met someone new.:confused:

I'm sorry that you are going through this.
can't really say that since we both work together, so practically we see each other more than any average couples.
he's not into porn [check the browser's cookies and registry.it's squeaky clean], no suspicious bodily fluid on the dirty laundry and he kept the door open while taking bath. so no, i don't think he's getting it somewhere else.:scratchhead:
 

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mavash, lol.
thanks to put it succinctly :D
i just don't get it.what's wrong with me so he stopped having sex :confused:
 

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It very well could have been boredom. What did you two do for fun?

My husband and I really dont do a whole lot for fun because we are being pulled in so many directions with the kids and their activities. Plus, he really enjoys quite days at home. Every now and then though he and I will get my parents to watch the kids and we will go for a short trip somewhere. We always keep it simple, because he is a simple man, but we enjoy that.

Did the two of you ever do anything like that? Sometimes its great to just get away from the house and go somewhere for a night or two.
 

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mavash, lol.
thanks to put it succinctly :D
i just don't get it.what's wrong with me so he stopped having sex :confused:
It may not be you. He could have a problem. A friend of mine went through that and her husband needed medication to help him in that department. Maybe he is embarrassed about it. :confused: Is he normally open about these things?
 

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we went shopping, played games together, had fun.
but no, never been to any leisure trip together with our business [well,his, now.since he kicked me out] growing. just work and work.
 

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It may not be you. He could have a problem. A friend of mine went through that and her husband needed medication to help him in that department. Maybe he is embarrassed about it. :confused: Is he normally open about these things?
he's not open about his feelings. once i've tried to do the dirty talk on bed, ended up with a discussion about sexual paraphernalias and psychology stuff. so there. :confused:
 

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we went shopping, played games together, had fun.
but no, never been to any leisure trip together with our business [well,his, now.since he kicked me out] growing. just work and work.
That may be an issue too. Maybe he is just burnt out and wants a change.

Would he be open to marriage counseling?
 

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That may be an issue too. Maybe he is just burnt out and wants a change.

Would he be open to marriage counseling?
nope.he's a guy with IQ of 160 and actually thinks that he IS always right. and since I live out here in Asia, a professional marriage counselor is uncommon as well.

im just curious, what did i miss ? why he wants to divorce?
 
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Does he have any sexual performance issues? ED? Premature EJ? Anything that might have changed over time? How about his testosterone level?
 
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