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so in my case, first she had the EA then said she wanted a divorce, then kisses the OM, this past weekend she tells me about it, and this morning I realize who the OM is and she confirmed it.
Funny, I introduced the OM to my W, back when his W and I worked for the same company - about 2 or 3 years ago.
Do I contact the OW or leave it alone. I see her Facebook page doesn't show her relation status.
so here's the lessons I feel I've learned:
Don't take your spouse for granted.
If you aren't happy in your marriage, it would better to tell your spouse and move on rather than having an affair - well that was more for her to learn.
Moving forward:
In my case its causing anxiety issues, however oatmeal and Ginger have helped that.
its tough when you still have to live together, and still have feelings.
What lessons have you learned?
Funny, I introduced the OM to my W, back when his W and I worked for the same company - about 2 or 3 years ago.
Do I contact the OW or leave it alone. I see her Facebook page doesn't show her relation status.
so here's the lessons I feel I've learned:
Don't take your spouse for granted.
If you aren't happy in your marriage, it would better to tell your spouse and move on rather than having an affair - well that was more for her to learn.
Moving forward:
In my case its causing anxiety issues, however oatmeal and Ginger have helped that.
its tough when you still have to live together, and still have feelings.
What lessons have you learned?