We are separated. She tells me she is not coming back. I believe her but still have hope and refuse to give up that hope. I have dated a few women while separated but recently stopped because I am not ready to move on. There are no affairs , just two people living as roommates for years who grew apart. Recently she has at least started owning up to her part. Usually it's been I didn't do this or I did this etc. Blame game. I have done the 180 and she would asks lots of questions about females I was seeing. Seemed like she was jealous but she did say she was hoping it would workout between me and any of the girls I was seeing. Not sure I buy that, I think that would make this easier on her guilt if I found someone. Regardless, 180 or not I refuse to throw in the towel and give up hope. That might make me a chump, bit I'm going down fighting. And I don't mean begging and pleading like I font have a pair of balls, but as far as hope goes I will not quit.