Think you are talking about Cromer.There was a notable case here that people reference quite a bit where the WW had an A while the BH was deployed or working away from home or something.
She got herpes or some other permanent STI from her AP and when the BH came home she told him she wasn’t in the mood and from there they went SEVENTEEN YEARS of no sex.
For the next 17 years She would say she wasn’t feeling it and he would accept it and let it go…..for 17 years.
Many here consider him a bit of a folk hero because one day he had had enough and tossed her out and went and found himself a little hottie that was laying him like tile.
But what makes it crazy to me is he went SEVENTEEN YEARS without asking questions or putting her feet to fire or addressing the fact they went almost two decades in a sexless marriage with no reason given.
Once he dropped the ax on her, then she broke down and confessed the affair and told him about the herpes.
But in the mean time they had wasted 17 years of their lives.
To me, that is the craziest case of them all.
he was a good solid guy.
Ex had multiple affairs.
after the divorce, her life fell apart and his soared. He meta woman through church and is now living his happily ever after.
Cromer, if you read this, hope you are doing well and enjoying married life, your kids and grandkids