My wife left me about 10 months ago for her boss from work, i didnt see it coming. She told me she is NOT in love with me anymore, I am still very much in love with her. But what strikes me as strange is that she will call/text me almost everyday just to tell me something funny she saw or read. She comes over and has dinner or coffee with her still mother-in-law (my mother) everyweek. We have a two year old little boy together, he is living with his mother. But when we are together for whatever it may be, we laugh and have fun its almost like we are still together. She refers to her new Boyfriend as friend all the time, even though i know for a fact they are together. Hes older then her shes 22, and hes 29, She has told me she is going to get papers to separate but its been about 10 months and i havent gotten anything. She also calls me when her boyfriend makes her sad or angry...i am still very much in love with my wife, and all that is keeping me going is hope. Im just wondering what could she be thinking...why keep me so close when she does not want to be with me, why stay so close to my mother when she ripped my heart out?...this is all i think about everyday...i just wish i could get some ideas or answers..i wasnt the best father/husband but ive changed since this started, but she still tells me im the same way i was before... i would do anything to have her back.