And the LD people may feel the same way about HD people, as far as just not getting it.
In your case, is your spouse on medications that could lower it? Are there any medical or emotional issues going on? is your spouse no longer in love with you? Do you know why they may be LD?
And if you are saying you will make other arrangments then that might be what you have to do.
If a person is LD for whatever reason, and if you were to tell them you are going to make other arrangements if you don't get sex,that will likely not get them to switch and become HD or even give in for that matter, it really depends on the situation.
I had only been on my workout plan just over a week. I was throwing out little subtle hints about how good the workouts make me feel. For the first time in over 5 years has my wife gone to the store for makeup and actually wears some lightly most days. It's not turned her into an HD overnight, but it has certainly changed her attitude about our relationship and she sees where she needs to increase her attention. She now knows my main love language is physical touch. She told me yesterday about how she needs to be more attentive to my needs. She read The Five Love Languages and it made her realize how important sex is for men.
