What oddball things did you do in an attempt to feel whole after the divorce? I am sure some went out and had sex with anything with a pulse, others may have opted for other extremes. I tried replacing all the kitchen items she took including a $300 mixer that I have yet to use a year later. Sometimes I just want to feel whole again and every day I get a little stronger realizing that I am whole on my own without trying to replace what she took. But sometimes damnit I want to buy stuff.