My last ex told me on one of the first nights together that she had had 5 boyfriends before me but than she told me she had slept with 10 guys on the nude, but she didnt have sex with them so it doesnt go in her books as having sex. She also admited (or rather mentioned) that she had watched porn with other people (plural in the room).
What worries me here isnt the technical details (do you count it as sex/boyfriend if you only sleep in the naked) but i was freaked and our relationship didnt last very long, and there were other issues as well that i judged as red flags.
Would you call that sluutish behaviour? Im not considering getting back with her or anything but i never talked to her about this issue, probably because i didnt trust myself to get angry and mad if we started talking on that.
Am i correct to belive that what she said was just the tip of the iceberg and it would have gotten even worse if i kept staying with her?
What worries me here isnt the technical details (do you count it as sex/boyfriend if you only sleep in the naked) but i was freaked and our relationship didnt last very long, and there were other issues as well that i judged as red flags.
Would you call that sluutish behaviour? Im not considering getting back with her or anything but i never talked to her about this issue, probably because i didnt trust myself to get angry and mad if we started talking on that.
Am i correct to belive that what she said was just the tip of the iceberg and it would have gotten even worse if i kept staying with her?