What do women really want?
I am looking for the female perception of course.
I am openly honest.
If the guys want to go out, I always ask her if she would like to join us and if she would prefer to do something else then I will choose what she wants.
I am heavily into dirtbikes, ATV etc. I never buy one in the event she would like her own.
I have a motorcycle and bought her one to learn on if she wished.
I have a boat, now it is only a speed boat but I am looking at getting a larger one with sleeping quarters so we can go out on the ocean and spend nights.
When home I cook, laundry everything.
I work out regularly am very muscular with very little body fat. I do this and keep this shape not only for my job but also as a sign to her that hey I want to look good for you.
She also works as an aerobics instructor so she is very fit as well.
I am a paramedic so my job takes me away most of the time so when I am home I setup date nights every Friday, movies with the kids on Saturdays and we usually have game nights as a family sundays.
Anything she wants I will give her and usually I read her face because she feels bad to ask.
I wake up every morning just to hear her voice or see her smile.
I would never cheat or lie or disrespect her in anyway.
Every time when making love I make sure she explodes and soaks the bed before I even put it in.
She is a successful nurse and has good and bad days at work like us all. I tell her the option is there to quit if she is not happy no big deal we can easily afford to live off my cheque.
Like I do what I can and there is no limitations to what I will not try and do to make her happy.
Yet she rarely smiles.
She admits she is not happy but doesn't know why.
I do not understand women. I was raised to put your wife on a pedestal and she comes first no matter what. Anything you do is to be done with her best interests in mind. The only thing that I put myself first for is my job. I will not give up saving lives for another persons ego, that is a line that I draw firmly.
So what do you women want. You say doors held open and all this but yet when it's done you think we men are trying to size you up your butt you walk through. If we do not then we don't respect you.
It's just frustrating.
I am looking for the female perception of course.
I am openly honest.
If the guys want to go out, I always ask her if she would like to join us and if she would prefer to do something else then I will choose what she wants.
I am heavily into dirtbikes, ATV etc. I never buy one in the event she would like her own.
I have a motorcycle and bought her one to learn on if she wished.
I have a boat, now it is only a speed boat but I am looking at getting a larger one with sleeping quarters so we can go out on the ocean and spend nights.
When home I cook, laundry everything.
I work out regularly am very muscular with very little body fat. I do this and keep this shape not only for my job but also as a sign to her that hey I want to look good for you.
She also works as an aerobics instructor so she is very fit as well.
I am a paramedic so my job takes me away most of the time so when I am home I setup date nights every Friday, movies with the kids on Saturdays and we usually have game nights as a family sundays.
Anything she wants I will give her and usually I read her face because she feels bad to ask.
I wake up every morning just to hear her voice or see her smile.
I would never cheat or lie or disrespect her in anyway.
Every time when making love I make sure she explodes and soaks the bed before I even put it in.
She is a successful nurse and has good and bad days at work like us all. I tell her the option is there to quit if she is not happy no big deal we can easily afford to live off my cheque.
Like I do what I can and there is no limitations to what I will not try and do to make her happy.
Yet she rarely smiles.
She admits she is not happy but doesn't know why.
I do not understand women. I was raised to put your wife on a pedestal and she comes first no matter what. Anything you do is to be done with her best interests in mind. The only thing that I put myself first for is my job. I will not give up saving lives for another persons ego, that is a line that I draw firmly.
So what do you women want. You say doors held open and all this but yet when it's done you think we men are trying to size you up your butt you walk through. If we do not then we don't respect you.
It's just frustrating.
It sounds like you two could have a really nice marriage if she wasn't depressed.She's a nurse,is it possible she has really bad job burnout but just doesn't want to admit it or quit?
