My wife and I have been together now for 7 years including dating. We have a 5 year old little girl that means everything to me. However, in the past 3 years I have had to practically beg my wife for sex. Before all the women out there tell me i need to do this or that let me explain the situation. My wife was molested as a young child. When we first got together she once told me that she was surprised we "did it" as many times as we did because she had never done so with her exes. I should have listened. There is no trying to "romance" her, as it brings up past memories, etc. At this point we only have sex about once every other month. It is driving me crazy!!! Any advice?