LOL The first man I married, I married him because I did love him, and he was who I was with. Was he the "love of my life"? No. The "love of my life" was all the way across country, and decided to marry the one he was with.
What really sucks...... There was absolutely no contact once he called me and told me he was marrying her, 25 years ago..... Flash forward to 2008 and WOW! a message from him on Classmates.com! He had been looking for me for years, and I him. But alas.... now that Im single, hes divorced from the first wife and married again.... But we havnt lost contact since! And never will. Thats the beautiful thing about being best friends before lovers, friend are usually forever!