I don't think you're being unreasonable.But why would you marry the person if they didn't possess these things?
It's hard to ask for a generalized list of what makes a good husband.Every one has different needs.As an example,I'd never put anything about being financially independent on my list or anything about education.As long as he can keep up with witty banter and has common sense I'm good
As long as he has a job and tries to contribute(not necessarily financial contribution either) then I'm good
Which of these does your husband lack?
It's hard to ask for a generalized list of what makes a good husband.Every one has different needs.As an example,I'd never put anything about being financially independent on my list or anything about education.As long as he can keep up with witty banter and has common sense I'm good
Which of these does your husband lack?