Would like to hear from former WS as to how valid and/or true statements are when still in the infatuation fog of the affair...eg. "felt no remorse", "did not think of wife at all", "did not feel guilty", "did not think of consequences", "did not love wife", and so on. Do you think these are issues that should be re-visited after the fog has lifted or is this just digging up the past? Also, how far should I push to get answers to why WH stayed in affair so long: 6 years? What did he want from affair, marriage, why didn't he divorce, what did he think would happen when found out, etc.