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What’s the difference?

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Did you ever wonder why some people find the perfect person to marry, do so, and enjoy a love affair that lasts a lifetime? On the other hand, some marry a person that is wrong for them now, wrong for them tomorrow, and wrong for them for a lifetime? What’s the difference? Why do some succeed at love and marriage where others fail?
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People marry for lust/"in love" feelings instead of making a rational, well-thought decision. Sometimes it works out anyway, sometimes it doesn't.
Because life is messy. And we all make mistakes along this very bumpy road.

And really, it boils down to that. Individual circumstances may vary...but that's what it boils down to.
As I've said before. Things do NOT get better once you married.

And if things are going bad... you only compound you problems if you bring a child into the marriage....


IF things are going great. Yeah.. A child will make it better.
True, the classic, well she/he will change when we marry, have a child, stops drinking, stops beating me.

and sadly it's hard to change, and its impossible to change someone.
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True, the classic, well she/he will change when we marry, have a child, stops drinking, stops beating me.

and sadly it's hard to change, and its impossible to change someone.
That's why people need to just be themselves and let someone fall in love with them for what they are..
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