People marry for lust/"in love" feelings instead of making a rational, well-thought decision. Sometimes it works out anyway, sometimes it doesn't.
True, the classic, well she/he will change when we marry, have a child, stops drinking, stops beating me.As I've said before. Things do NOT get better once you married.
And if things are going bad... you only compound you problems if you bring a child into the marriage....
IF things are going great. Yeah.. A child will make it better.
That's why people need to just be themselves and let someone fall in love with them for what they are..True, the classic, well she/he will change when we marry, have a child, stops drinking, stops beating me.
and sadly it's hard to change, and its impossible to change someone.