I don't know what to do!! WH was asked to go to a bar tonight with a group of guys from work. This is a major trigger for me. He used "bar with the guys" as an excuse back in November to hook up with OW at a motel. That next morning was a major DD. There were many to follow. As far as I can tell he is being on the up And up though. He has offered to let me call and talk to the guys, to make their plans on speaker phone, I already have gps on his phone. I don't know I I can handle this. We are only 2mths out.